Category: Singles Spit Swap
I want a LONG term relationship, not a fling, not a one night stand something LONG TERM.
When I get into a relationship I give it my all and I am in it forever and I always always end up getting hurt.
I am a nice girl, I am romantic, fun to be around, friendly, I'd do anything for the one i was with *within reason*, I'm very affectionate.
All I want is a guy who will be there for me no matter what, who will be a shoulder for me to cry on, someone who is romantic, affectionate and knows how to treat a woman.
I am sighted, although I do not judge people. I don't care if your blind or not. I'll be with you either way. I dont think it matters whether someone can see or not it's stupid the way some poeple think.
Anyway I am single if anyone is interested AT ALL please let me know. I look forward to getting to know you.
THank you and God Bless
Amanda
When aught else is false, there is the ever prevalent vow, the oath that shelters like the immutable walls of a fortress.
Kai
Gea it would be nice to meet a female like her. That does not mined the blind shit.
I do not believe it matters whether someone can see or not. When you fall in love hopefully you fall in love with that person as a WHOLE not for something they have or don't have. Just because someone is blind doesn't mean that they aren't as good as a sighted person. I can't stand it when someone thinks they are better than someone else. So no I do not care if someone is blind or not because it does not define a person it's just simply a part of them.
damn, would like to meet someone like you then. it shouldn't matter who's blind or not, just someone who is willing to stick in a relationship, and one who will be by your side, one to take care of you, one to treet you right.
personally, that's how I am, I stick with who I am with, and don't go with anyone else.
Sweet.
I am sighted, and I've dated women without any vision problem whatsoever but I think the best relationship was with a girl that was totally blind, so it really shouldn't matter.
ah Amanda, hang in there chicky, you will find someone. -- I was so like you; just had to be content with flings etc. but, just as I wasn't looking, I found myself in a relationship. People use to tell me all the time that "it will come along when you're not looking" bla bla, but it's true.
Just be careful if you're looking online. now that I'm in a local relationship, I couldn't do any different. So many people who get themselves in these little fling-type things online just get hurt; take a few people on this very sight for example.
best of luck! :)
hell! I have resigned to not looking cause when I do my heart breaks to. and when I love I love.!!
Alright im all confused, I was talking to a great guy on here who claimed he'd never break my heart and wanted to be with me forever, we have so much in common and suddenly he blocks me for NO reason or no reason what so ever that he's told me. I am hurt and confused because I didn't do anything at all to make anyone block me **sobs***
but that's the thing with "online dating". how can you tell anything is for real? I know I sound negative but honestly that's how it seems. You really have to be sure about a person before you can even accept that "they love you, want to spend the rest of their life with you" etc etc.
Amanda, I think it's great, be it a little crazy, that you want a serious relationship.
Hang in there
Hang in there Amanda. It's really difficult to find a lasting relationship, especially online, but I'm sure you'll find someone. *hugs*
sometimes you can not truly heal if your heart is broken to many times.
Hi Amanda,
I wish only the best for you.
I, too am single and want to find the right one for me, but it's hard to trust people; people are so fake these days.
Amanda, Sorry to hear about what happened to you. From what you wrote, it seems to me that the idea of loving and being with someone overjoys you completely. There is nothing wrong with it, I think, but one never knows what to expect from someone, until they take the time to get to know them well enough. Every friendship and relationship is different and has its ups and downs and I hope that your past experiences have showed you how future relationships could work for you better. Good luck.
the person could have had the guts to tell you why they chose not to speak to you. I personally am not sure if love really ixists anymore. I guess it will find me when its ready.
Hi Amanda, and good luck. If you meet someone online, if it's meant to be whether friendship or something more, I believe they'll respect your views, and take the time to get to know you. Relationships, whether friendships or otherwise, take time. Sorry if I repeated myself, but it's late. lol. So I say again, good luck, and let us know if anything happens. We're in your corner.
I've seen so much although I am a freshman in high school, I'll tell you this much. This is not a black and white world. This is a tough world. Love is not easy, if it was we'd all be in love and reproducing. So, please calm down. Plus, boys these days. Don't know what to think of them any more. Ug.
amanda: From your writing you seem like a wonderful woman. It seems that the only two pieces of advice people are giving on here are to wait and your love will come, or, that finding a love is tough, and you're better off taking a picture of your imaginary pet. Ok, maybe I'm exagerating just a bit, but I think you know what I mean. These are all great suggestions, but i'd just like to add one more. I'm sure that you've read the oohs and ahs about the theory of the law of attraction? Well, I'm not going to profess that it works, or that it doesn't for that matter. What I will suggest is that becoming who you want in your life will definitely bring long term results. Do your best to wake up every morning and be an example to everyone around you of the type of person you'd like to be with long term. If the theory holds true, it'll only be a matter of time before you're attracting those which stick to you long term. What I've learned in my life is that its just not enough saying what you want, but actually breathing, tasting, and even sleeping yor desires with true passion. As you can read, when you posted on here what it is that you wanted, nobody on here said, hey, I'm your man. Rather they said something on the lines of, wow, I want a girl like you. Maybe I'm barking up the wrong tree, or maybe more men actually captured the type of person you are, and would be to them, more than listening to what you were looking for in the first place. So, strengthen that part of you, and my guess is that you'll be attracting men like crazy! At the very least Amanda, you'll learn a great deal about yourself, learn to love yourself, and bring forth a brand new you.
P.S. Remember that decisions you make in life affect your outcome.
Lol! Love doesn't come that easy.
yes, havn't found that one good person yet, love seemes deturmaned to screw me over. I agree with a lot written here. Love someone for who they are, not what they got!
Well, both of you, try and wait, calm down, and best of all patience!